2012.06.09 The Spiritual Interaction between Man and Woman in sexual union {husband and wife in marriage} Created by on 2/3/2014 2:23:10 PM Most people are dangerously unaware of the consequences of casual or illicit sexual intercourse and also unaware of the spiritual power associated with a Yah fearing {Almighty fearing} union {marriage}
This article outlines all the different factors that Yah has built into men and women to make unions strong and which when unwisely applied can cause huge danger.
2012.06.09
The Spiritual Interaction between Man and Woman
in sexual union
{husband and wife in marriage}
by
James Robertson
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Many people regard sexual intercourse as carnal and physical when it is, in fact, the most spiritual act a man or woman can enter into with the exception of the act of faith required to believe in the Almighty and accept His Spirit to dwell within us.
This article outlines the main aspects of the spiritual forces that come into play as a consequence of a sexual union between a man and a woman – note that these SAME forces will come into play in the event of sexual union between two men or two women or between multiple men and / or multiple women, most of them will come into effect in the event of sexual union between an animal and a human as well – this is why sex with an animal is such an abomination and why promiscuous sex is also an abomination.
Where such union takes place as a consequence of sin or the relationship has broken down to the point of divorce sanctioned in the Court of Heaven ALL of these aspects need to be dealt with in order to FULLY cut ties – Yah willing this will be discussed in a subsequent article.
For the purposes of this article I will restrict discussion to the sexual union of one man with one woman, the other situations follow the same pattern. These factors are the same whether in the case of casual sex (one night stand or prostitute) or a long term relationship and whether there is a formal covenant {marriage} union or not.
Note that in the sight of the Almighty human marriage ceremonies have no relevance if they contradict the verdict of the Court of Heaven – a marriage with a woman who is NOT free to marry in the sight of the Almighty is still adultery and will result in time in the Lake of Fire and Brimstone irrespective of how nice the ceremony or how anointed the marriage officer is considered to be – the marriage ceremony is fundamentally a pagan rite that has no validity in the sight of Yah although the forces of darkness WILL turn such a ceremony to their advantage and the vows are binding.
The spiritual components that come into being in a sexual union between a man and a woman are as follows:
1. Soul ties (friendship ties) and memories
Immediately a man and woman start getting to know one another they will start to form soul ties or friendship ties – these have a spiritual dimension and create a spiritual link that can become very strong.
These ties form between any two human beings as they get to know each other and get stronger the greater the friendship, it is written that “David loved Jonathan as his own soul” – 1 Samuel 18:1.
Associated with the ties of friendship we start to form memories, whether good or bad.
Pleasant soul ties and memories will draw a man and woman towards one another and therefore care must be exercised when a man and woman associate with one another where consummation of the attraction is not permitted, as in the case of a man and woman who work together where she is married to another man.
2. Sexual attraction / desire – chemistry
Sexual attraction and desire develop between a man and woman the moment they consider the possibility of sexual contact with one another and do not place that desire under strict control.
This chemistry is designed to hold a man and woman in covenant union together over time and to strengthen the one-flesh bond but also forms easily when there are friendship ties, for example in the work place, and must therefore be managed carefully.
3. Spirit to spirit adhesion
Intense body to body contact as in heavy embraces, cuddling, French kissing (open mouth on open mouth), etc can give rise to spirit to spirit adhesion that leaves ties in place that remain even after the relationship has ended unless they are cut off.
4. Contractual ties – promises, vows, oaths, covenant
At some point in a relationship the man and woman will start to make promises to one another, these may be simple and flippant promises or they can be more conscious and deliberate vows or they may go all the way to taking oaths with reference to the shedding of blood if the oath is broken (includes taking “communion”) – this is the fundamental essence of covenant – a vow with blood that represents death to the one who breaks the vow or covenant.
It is extremely unwise to take flippant or lightly intended vows or promises in a marriage ceremony – legally in the Court of Heaven those vows are binding and will be used to judge the people involved for the rest of the relationship.
We use the phrase “broken promise” easily but, in the spiritual realm, a broken promise, vow or oath has a tangible almost physical manifestation. I have heard a vow break – it sounds like a very dry stick breaking.
Breaking a vow or oath can have huge spiritual consequences, the person on the receiving end of the betrayal can experience massive spiritual, emotional and physical trauma if they have placed considerable reliance on that vow or promise and have possibly invested a significant amount of time and effort into actions predicated on that vow or promise.
Once a vow has been broken it requires whole hearted repentance on the part of the offending party in order to rebuild and it may never be rebuilt.
Trust is a gift and when broken it is difficult to restore.
5. Yah’s default covenant terms
When a man and a woman who is free to have intercourse have sexual intercourse Yah’s default covenant terms immediately come into play UNLESS the man and woman actively take vows or oaths that directly countermand Yah’s default contractual terms BEFORE intercourse.
In simple terms when a man take a woman’s virginity, blood is shed which automatically invokes a covenant with a death sentence and in the absence of alternative contractual terms the life-long terms of the covenant are:
- Man is head of the woman and must protect her Ephesians 5:25 and other verses
- Woman must submit to her man in EVERYTHING – Ephesian 5:24, 1 Peter 3:1 and other verses
When a man takes the “virginity” of a truly divorced woman or widow the same rules apply although it is advisable to take the bread and wine under such circumstances.
6. One-flesh bond
The one-flesh bond is a spiritual connection between the spirits of the man and woman that comes into existence the moment one of them experiences orgasm and releases a spurt of their spirit in such a way that that spurt can connect with and bind to the other person.
A one-flesh bond can be formed by using the hand or mouth or other part of the body to bring the other person to orgasm as well as during conventional sexual intercourse with vaginal penetration.
If the orgasm is weak the bond is weak and if it is strong a stronger bond is formed.
The more strong orgasms that are experienced the stronger the bond becomes.
Simultaneous orgasm will result in the most rapid growth in the strength of the one-flesh bond.
One-flesh bonds can be formed at a very low key level through the air if both parties focus on one another and masturbate to orgasm – even half way around the world.
The moment a man and woman form a one-flesh bond without vaginal intercourse, even through mutual masturbation or oral stimulation, the Court of Heaven finds them to be betrothed unless the bond is adulterous.
Once orgasm is achieved by either partner vaginally the couple are viewed as being in a life time covenant union by the Court of Heaven provided that the union is not adulterous.
Adultery in the Court of Heaven is very straightforward -- it is the formation of a one-flesh bond between a man and a woman where the woman already has a one-flesh bond with another man, whether the relationship with that man has broken down and they have a legal divorce or whether she is “cheating” on him.
Note that in the event that a woman betrays her man sexually a spirit of jealousy (Numbers 5:14) will come upon him and he will become irritable, bad tempered and even aggressively angry.
A legal divorce means NOTHING if the Court of Heaven does not agree with the verdict and is ONLY valid IF the one-flesh bond has been cut.
The one-flesh bond CANNOT be cut by deliverance style prayers, it requires very specific prayer in humility and supported by legal argument in order to be cut. Only the Almighty, Himself, is able to cut a one-flesh bond. The party requesting the severance of the one-flesh bond must have a solid legal basis and robustly WANT the bond cut, it is easier to cut a one flesh bond when someone with the necessary knowledge and anointing leads the prayer.
The one-flesh bond ties the man and woman together even if they are on opposite sides of the plant.
A strong one-flesh bond will allow the parties to know one another’s thoughts and to speak with one voice, a really strong one-flesh bond allows the woman to act as the man’s representative and speak his will into a situation even if they are separated by thousands of kilometres.
A strong one-flesh bond will eventually cause a man and a woman to look more like one another and behave more like one another over time as it grows stronger.
The one-flesh bond will remain at its full strength for ever in this life as long as both parties live unless there is abuse, treachery, angry words, etc that murder the one-flesh bond. Otherwise it will remain of full force for all of their lives whether they are legally divorced and living miles apart or whether they are living together.
It is technically possible for one human being to have direct one-flesh bonds with hundreds of other human beings in which case all sorts of complications arise and witches and other agents of Satan can use the one-flesh bond to manipulate and control believers.
Once a person is joined to people that have one-flesh bonds with prostitutes or Satanists they are effectively one-flesh with virtually the entire population of the planet with the exception of those who have strictly disciplined themselves NOT to get into this situation.
Note that the anointing flows through the one-flesh bond between the parties so that a partner who joins to others who are not anointed will have the anointing drain out of both of the partners.
Where one partner in a closed union {marriage} allows fear, rebellion, etc to enter their lives this connects them to the forces of darkness and will drain anointing out of both parties.
7. Transfer / replication of demons and curses
The minute a one-flesh bond is formed the demons on each person clone themselves onto the other person – thus, after first intercourse, the man has a full set of the woman’s demons and the woman has a full set of the man’s demons.
Where one of the parties has had sex with numerous partners and never cut ties and been delivered tens of thousands of demons can be involved in this situation.
These demons will encourage sinful behaviour that is present in the source party to manifest in the other party and the two people will start to behave more alike because of similar demonic manifestations in both of them.
Note that it is unlikely that any person on earth is entirely free of demons, we ALL have sin and as long as we have sin we give the relevant demons legal right to attach to us.
8. The divided house / harmony
The moment a one-flesh bond is formed the parties become a “house” in spiritual terms.
Restricting the discussion to the context of a man and woman in legitimate exclusive relationship with no one-flesh bonds outside their relationship this is the way Father intended things to be – a closed system.
When this house is in harmony or unity it will prosper, whether the man and woman are actively serving the Almighty or actively serving Satan or just muddling along in life with no real relationship with either the Almighty or Satan.
Immediately division enters this house it will start to fall (Matthew 12:25, Luke 11:17). This does NOT have to be manifest division and strife, it can simply be the woman choosing to believe differently to the man, doing her own thing contrary to his will, etc.
Note that unless there is a formal contract (covenant) before the Court of Heaven in terms of which the man relinquishes his headship in favour of the woman then the man is ALWAYS the head and the division is ALWAYS with the woman. The man can do things that make it more difficult for the woman to be in harmony but the responsibility for harmony always rests with the woman. This is NOT being ugly or chauvinistic it is simply the way things are designed to be, the man is the head, the leader, the one who gives direction and the woman is the strong partner who supports her man – see Proverbs 31.
When a man and woman enter into sexual union it is vital that they understand that need for harmony, it is dangerous for a woman or man to enter into such union if they know there are fundamental differences of opinion.
If they are not serving the Almighty the impact may be limited but if they are seeking to serve the Almighty with any measure of dedication the forces of darkness will infiltrate every area of their lives and particularly their finances with hindering spirits (demons) whose job it is to interfere with and obstruct and prevent finances from reaching the family unit as this is the simplest way to cause the family to fall.
A woman who is not prepared to submit to her man should either remain single or only join herself to a man who is willing to allow her to lead the family and submit to her.
A man and woman in perfect harmony, resulting from a strong woman exercising her will to align herself with her man is an extremely powerful spiritual force on the earth with a magnifying effect which is dramatic.
9. Love results from “making love”
It is vital to understand that sexual intercourse is called “making love” for a reason, it causes love to come into existence.
Love can come into existence through the relationship as a very deep form of soul tie but the deep spiritual form of love that comes about as a consequence of love making is a tangible spiritual force – it has a spiritual manifestation – it is written in 1 Corinthians 13:7 that love never dies, that it endures all things.
Once love has been created it CANNOT be put away or eliminated.
Love can be murdered through abuse but it will otherwise NEVER go away.
Even making love to a prostitute ONCE will cause love to come into existence together with memories that will never go away, they can be suppressed but they will not disappear.
There is NO prayer that can be prayed that will destroy love, Yah (the Almighty) IS love, it is fundamentally against His standards to destroy love, thus love should be given cautiously.
Under certain circumstances one can pray for the Almighty to seal the chamber of your heart where love for a particular person exists but otherwise it will always be there and be tangible.
Treachery by a person who is deeply loved or death or forcible separation is massively traumatic and has spiritual, emotional and physical consequences.
10. Putting away – “divorce”
From the above it will become apparent that sexual intercourse should ONLY take place when a man and woman are totally committed to spending the rest of their lives together.
One night stands cause massive spiritual damage and hardening of the heart.
I hope in the near future to write a follow-up article on the grounds whereby the Court of Heaven will grant divorce and how to clean up after divorce or where one has been in a relationship which is in error and forbidden by the Court of Heaven.
All of these factors are designed to make the union between man and woman (or women) extremely powerful and enduring, Yah never had in mind that we would marry lightly and divorce lightly or that we would engage in casual sex or use prostitutes.
Conclusion
Sexual intercourse and the relationship and other spiritual forces that result from such intercourse are massively powerful with spiritual consequences which are extremely difficult to terminate or put aside.
These factors are designed to give rise to a powerful and enduring union that will endure the worst that life can throw at us and which, if correctly mobilized, will give rise to an intensely powerful and prosperous family unit that is able to make an impact on the earth way beyond its apparent capability.
May Yah bless you and keep you and make His face to shine upon you and give you peace.
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